WORD TO WORDS

                        "Gue galau nih, abis diputusin pacar gue"    Daggh!!! Siapa yang pernah denger temennya ngomong gini, atau bahkan kalian sendiri yang pernah bilang statement di atas ke temen kalian. Siapa ? Siapa ? Ya sebenarnya sih bukan hanya soalnya di putusin aja, bisa aja kalian adalah pihak yang memutuskan tali hubungan itu dan in the end tetep aja kebutuhan kalian yang baru putus adalah MOVE ON.  Serem ga dengernya ? MOVE ON ~ MOVE ON~ MOVE ON :p ngeri kan !! Namanya kebutuhan itu bukan pilihan kan ? itu suatu hal yang mau gak mau, atau suka ga suka tetep harus kalian jalanin.  Gini nih, di beropini kali ini gue cuma mau memberikan perspektif gue atau pandangan gue tentang what broken heart is. Broken heart is one of the most painful memory in somebody life’s. Ga ada yang mau patah hati kan? Tapi thanks for Raditya Dhika utk no...

its such a pity if you have a pretty face but your personality is bad af !  tulisan kali ini gue cuma mau curhat aja sih tentang cewek-cewek metropolitan yang bikin gue dari kemarin agak menghela nafas panjang dan geleng-geleng kepala.  as my opinion ( karena judulnya aja BEROPINI ) dan juga karena ini blog gue, maka sah aja kan kalo gue mengeluarkan pendapat dan uneg-uneg gue.  Gini ya, gue tuh suka gerah sama cewek-cewek berparas cantik TAPI kelakuannya MINUS. Catet ya guys, MINUS loh dan bukan NOL ( even nol pun akan terlalu bagus untuk mereka ) Jadi ceritanya kenapa gue bisa sampai se"emosi" ini kalo udah nyangkut masalah personality adalah kemarin gue ga sengaja nguping pembicaraan cewek-cewek metropolitan berparas ayu, bertas gucci, berbaju ZARA dan bersepatu fendi ( ya pokoknya branded-branded gitu lah ya), mereka sih cuma ngomong satu kalimat doang, tapi bikin gue panas coy ! mereka ngomong " anjirlah ada kakek tua di depan mall **** yang ga sengaj...

Istilah anak-anak kekinian sekarang yang suka tercetus adalah “ ih apaan sih baper abis deh lu” Baper atau istilahnya adalah bawa perasaan adalah suatu 'celotehan' yang biasanya di pakai buat anak-anak yang sensitif.  Nih ya, di beropini kali ini gue cuma masih kasih cara pandang gue melihat fenomena itu.  I used to be someone yang juga bisa di bilang 'baperan'.  Misalnya gini, kalo gue mau ngomong sama orang, gue harus bener bener mikirin kata-kata yang bikin orang tersebut dengernya nyaman dan gak nyeleneh, atau juga misalnya gue ngerasa gue melakukan sedikit kesalahan sama orang ( perasaan gue aja sih sebenernya, padahal itu orang biasa biasa aja ke gue ) nah gue pasti bakalan pikirin semaleman kok gue bisa sih ngelakuin atau ngomong kayak gitu ke dia dan at the end by the day akan berakhir dengan permintaan maaf gue yg akan terbalaskan dengan " hah, ga kenapa-kenapa kali shierr, baper deh lu"  Seiring berjalannya waktu gue makin ...

Coba seberapa banyak dari kita yang ngerasa fase hidup dari kita itu adalah : sekolah -- kuliah -- kerja -- nikah -- punya anak -- tua     Setuju atau gak setuju itu adalah fase hidup pada umumnya yang sudah ada dalam society kita sejak lama.  Kalau lu ga sekolah / kuliah, ya lu aneh Kalau lu lulus sekolah / kuliah habis itu ga dapet kerjaan ( biasanya yg presti's adalah kerjaan di kantor adem berAC ) , ya lu aneh   Kalau lu ga dapet pacar di umur lu yang sudah *ehem* di atas 25 tahun , ya lu jomblo eh sorry aneh  Kalau lu ga nikah-nikah padahal umur lu udah mateng (  usia ideal untuk menikah ) , ya elu aneh  Nah, nyebelinnya lagi adalah ketika lu udah beres dengan kuliah lu, lu udah punya pacar yang luar dalam cocok sama lu, dan akhirnya lu menikah sama dia, tapi lu ga punya anak , lu bakal tetep aneh Unfortunately, ga ada yang bisa nyalahin semua mindset orang-orang yang kasih mark kalo hal itu aneh. Karena apa ? Karena ...

Nazrul Anwar dalam buku Genap nya bilang begini : Good quotes from mas Nazrul Anwar 🙌🏻 How many times you ever get dissapointed by your own hope? How many time your assumption never work as your plan? I think they will… I know he/she gonna… I hope my pay will be… bla bla bla and so on ~ As a human being we never know what will be happen in the future. Sometimes we have an assumption that a thing will be work as we think, and if that things not work as we think, we will sink by our disillusion. Nobody said that “hoping” on something is wrong or right. This is about how ready are you if your plan isn’t going well as you hope or think? How big the capacity of your heart to retain the dissapointed feeling ? I’m sure enough, no matter how strong you are or how mature you are, you can’t avoid a ‘sad’ feeling if something doesn’t work as you think. That’s really NORMAL. What really matter is, after you get down, how strong are you to build again your ‘power’ to stand up and...

When people arround you asking about “what’s your value?” If i can answer that question, i will said that my value is the way i did to show my existence. Don’t always think about your weekness. CONCENTRATE on your strength! Find ways to generate results through your strengths. The biggest achievement is will be the same as your heart loves. Thats why we called it as a passion. Its all about knowing yourself and doing what you love. GET A LIFE not just a job Someone said this “anyone can learn the same skills and develope identical competencies, but your passion and purpose are exclusively yours” My point is your value is all about your heart and the way you did to show the world about yourself and your existence. Don’t be afraid to be you. You are unique. Think less Feel more. Worry less Do more.

Wohoo ! maybe some of you ever heard about this quotes. Well, lem'me explain about it from my point of view Do you have a hatters? 👹 It doesn’t matter how lovely you are, how famous you are..there’s must be a hatter “looking” at you and waiting for you to get down. You only have 2 hands right? You can’t shut all the hatter’s mouth. But all you can do with your hands is close you ears and be happy. Listen to your heart. What’s really makes you feel happy? ( and absolutely is not your hatter words ) The key is BE HAPPY and be yourself. Do whatever it takes to make you feel comfort, confident and happy. Shut their ‘hate’ with your smile and go on with your life. Nothing more important in this world than your own happiness.  As long as is not give a negative impact to people surround you, do it! Don’t ‘always’ look back and regret something that you can’t even change it. Move on and deal with the future in front of you. Kill ‘em with kindness ( like selena gomez sa...

It doesn’t matter how much money do you have, how many lovers do you have, how beautiful you look like in the mirror. You just nothing if you are not happy. Being happy isn’t always rich, popular, famous, pretty or more. Happy is what’s inside your heart feels . Since today, please follow what’s your heart says. Do what you want to do. Laugh out loud without hesitant. Live your life truly as who you want to be. Don’t be scare to make people dissatisfied, you don’t live to make all people in this world happy. Stay on your dream and follow them every single day. Don’t let anyone bring you down. Show the world what you can do. Be the best for your self not for anyone else. Be you !! Be happy !! 💋

You can’t hold everything in your little hand. You have a big heart, but you can’t take everything in your life. Some thing isn’t worth it for you to hold. And some other thing is really worth it for you to be fight for it. Is that hurt if you force your self to hold something that gave you the most painful feeling ? Let it go . If that’s yours its gonna be yours for good. If isn’t yours, no matter how hard you try to keep it, it will be worth less. Try to confess your self, that you can’t make everyone happy. If you are not happy and live in pain, who can save you? You are your own hero. You are the only one who can save your self! Give you heart a break. Let it go for everything that makes you hurt. Take and keep everything that makes you happy. Remember, you can have a kind heart and still say no :)